Relationship advice - Bonnie Vent Channeling - Session 46

Bonnie Vent is a medium/channeler Topic: We would like to talk about your relationships. Everyone is doing what they feel they need to do to make their lives work for them. There is no judgement here. For those reading or hearing this message we suggest to you that it is time to surround yourself with those that are being completely themselves. There is no need for guessing games of what to do when you are around them.

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The Connection channeling with Bonnie Vent 04/28/19

Greetings Dear Ones,

We would like to talk about your relationships. Everyone is doing what they feel they need to do to make their lives work for them. There is no judgement here. For those reading or hearing this message we suggest to you that it is time to surround yourself with those that are being completely themselves. There is no need for guessing games of what to do when you are around them. They know what they want and they are happy to share if you ask them in a sincere way. In turn you need to be completely authentic. Once again, we present a simple task that is not easy at the beginning. The more you open up the easier it becomes and the quality of your relationships will increase. We have said before that there will also be people that will fall away and become more in the distance. Do not be afraid of this process. It provides time for you to spend with yourself. If you can say you find your own company enjoyable, you are on the right track. There may be some adjustments that you would like to make as well. This is not to “fit in”, dear one, this is to remove what is not yours. Many of your thoughts and beliefs that you take for granted were learned or taught to you by another well meaning person. Shake off the dust of these old implanted ideas and see if they still feel good to you. It is an assessment process that should be done in a playful manner as a child would sort through blocks seeking their favorite colors. Your soul knows which ones feel the best.

If you are in relationships that are not predominately joyful and positive you need to reevaluate why you are there. There will be disagreements in any relationship. It is how these disagreements are handled that matters the most. If you do not feel safe to speak freely and honestly, then it is time for the situation to be resolved and closed. Your journey is your journey and nothing should be preventing you from moving forward and you should not interfere with the paths of others either. Be respectful of how sacred each person is here living a life. Do not feel that others have is easier than you do, or they do not understand. Instead surround yourself with people who succeed no matter what happens. Be that kind of person yourself. Others are paying attention. Being a human does mean having a dark side and a light side. Do not ignore one for the other. It is all about balance. So many do the work side but forget about the play side. Play is good for you and playing with others brings a joy bigger than yourself. Be a creator of the ripple effect. Joy is contagious, and with all you have to deal with being human, you deserve a joyful reward. Fill your cup to the overflow point and let it gently fall everywhere you go. A smile can make someone’s day. You may never know, but don’t be surprised if once in a while, someone tells you how much it meant. Start with yourself. If someone made a difference, let them know, and be honest. Do not be afraid of feeling foolish. Remember, do not expect anything in return. Just know within yourself that you spread sunshine and someone stood in that shine and had a positive moment as a result. Being human is not easy. Be kind to yourself and remember to breathe.

Until we meet again